Show notes: Ep 1.08 ~ Infidelity and cheating

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Infidelity and cheating are difficult and complex topics that can have a devastating impact on romantic relationships. In this blog post, we'll explore some of the statistics and stories behind infidelity, and provide some advice for those who may be struggling with the aftermath of cheating.

​According to a study conducted by the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, approximately 15% of wives and 25% of husbands reported having engaged in extramarital sex. These numbers may be even higher in the general population, with a YouGov survey finding that 28% of respondents admitted to having cheated on their partner at some point in their lives. Infidelity is not limited to any one demographic or age group, and can occur in both heterosexual and same-sex relationships.

One of the most challenging aspects of infidelity is the emotional toll it can take on those involved. It can be difficult to rebuild trust and intimacy after cheating, and the feelings of betrayal, anger, and hurt can be overwhelming. Many people who have experienced infidelity report feeling like they are constantly on edge, and may struggle with anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues as a result.
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​In some cases, cheating can lead to the end of a relationship. According to the Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, infidelity is a contributing factor in approximately 20% of divorces. However, it's important to note that not all relationships that experience infidelity end in separation or divorce. Many couples are able to work through the challenges and rebuild their relationship in a positive way.

One of the keys to moving forward after infidelity is effective communication. It's important for both partners to be willing to listen to each other and express their feelings openly and honestly. This can be a difficult process, as it may involve confronting difficult emotions and having difficult conversations. However, it is essential for both partners to feel heard and understood in order to move forward.

Another important factor in the healing process is self-care. It's important for both partners to prioritize their physical and emotional health, and to engage in activities that bring them joy and fulfillment. This might include spending time with friends, engaging in hobbies or exercise, or seeking therapy or counseling.

Ultimately, moving forward after infidelity is a challenging and often painful process. However, with effective communication, commitment, and the willingness to work through difficult emotions, it is possible for couples to move forward and strengthen their relationship. If you or someone you know is struggling with the aftermath of infidelity, it's important to seek out support and resources to help navigate this difficult time.

​Overcoming Infidelity Self Reflection Workbook
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