Show Notes: Ep 1.4 ~ What Men Wish You Knew

Transcript

In this episode, we delve into the minds of men and explore what they wish women knew about their communication style, thoughts on cheating and sex, and what they look for before and during a relationship. It's no secret that men and women communicate differently, but how exactly do these differences manifest in relationships? And what can women do to better understand their male partners?

​First and foremost, it's important to understand that men and women have different communication styles. According to a study by the University of Maryland, women tend to use more words and gestures when communicating, while men use fewer words and more nonverbal cues. This can lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations, especially when it comes to emotional communication.
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​For men, emotional communication can be particularly challenging. They may not feel comfortable expressing their emotions verbally, which can make it difficult for women to understand what they're feeling. As one of our guests on the episode put it, "Men communicate through action, not words. If I'm doing something for you, it means I care about you."
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But what about the thorny topic of cheating? It's a subject that often elicits strong emotions and opinions, but what do men really think about it? According to a survey by the Institute for Family Studies, 20% of men have cheated on their partners, compared to 13% of women. The reasons for cheating vary, but common factors include lack of emotional connection, sexual dissatisfaction, and feeling unappreciated.

However, it's important to note that not all men are cheaters. In fact, many men place a high value on loyalty and honesty in relationships. As one of our guests on the episode stated, "Cheating is a betrayal of trust. If you're committed to someone, you shouldn't be looking for affection or validation elsewhere."


When it comes to sex, men and women often have different expectations and desires. According to a survey by Match.com, 55% of men said they wanted sex more frequently than their partners, compared to 37% of women. Additionally, men may have a higher sex drive than women due to biological factors.
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But sex isn't just about physical desire. For men, it's also about emotional connection and intimacy. As one of our survey respondents for the  episode noted, "Sex is a way for me to connect with my partner on a deeper level. It's not just about physical pleasure, it's about feeling close to someone."

So, what do men look for before and during a relationship? According to a survey by eHarmony, the top qualities that men look for in a partner include physical attraction, intelligence, sense of humor, and kindness. During a relationship, men appreciate feeling appreciated and valued by their partners.


As one of our men summed it up, "Men want to feel loved and appreciated just as much as women do. We may not always express it in the same way, but we need to feel like we matter to our partners."
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In conclusion, understanding the male perspective on relationships can be complex, but it's important for women to make an effort to understand their male partners. By acknowledging their communication style, thoughts on cheating and sex, and what they look for in a relationship, women can build stronger and more fulfilling relationships with the men in their lives. So, whether you're single or in a relationship, tune in to this episode for valuable insights and advice on navigating the male psyche.